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The Importance of Mentors

October 2, 2009

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Mentors have played an important role in my life since I was in elementary school. There was always a teacher or counselor who kept an eye out for me, or helped me through the latest “tween” or teenage angst. Through the years I have come to rely on the mostly sage advice I have received, not only from my elders, but often from my peers.

What I always found amazing was that my mentors always saw more in me than I saw in myself. I was often surprised when a mentor would recommend that I try some new activity, or take on a leadership position that I hadn’t considered. One of the turning points in my life was when my high school principal stopped me in the hall one day and asked if I would be applying to Harvard or Princeton. That stopped me cold. Me? Harvard? Princeton? I was just a young black girl from the town of Spokane, Washington who happened to do well in school. I never imagined that I could go to such a high profile university, given that no one in my family even had a B.A. In the end, I only applied to Stanford University and a couple of public universities, because I couldn’t afford the application fees, and Stanford was the only institution to recruit me to run track, but I was confident in the knowledge that I belonged at a place like Stanford.

As a first-generation college student, traveling through the world of academia was often a series of blind turns. I was very lucky to have landed at Stanford as an undergraduate. Everyone from my resident assistant, to the professor and his wife who were the resident fellows in my dorm, to my track coach, to my employers played an important role in getting me through to my B.A.

After Stanford, I entered the working world, but always had a desire to go to graduate school. I first tried going to school part-time to get a master’s in public administration, hoping to build a career in nonprofit administration. One of my professors at San Francisco State University took an interest in me and encouraged me to apply to the Presidental Management Fellows Progam. Although I didn’t apply, I was again surprised that someone saw such potential in me. He eventually encouraged me to go on to get my Ph.D. He inspired me as a teacher as well as encouraging me to pursue an academic career.

By the time I entered graduate school full time, I had been working for six years and knew that I wanted to be back in the academic environment. I spent my first semester at UCLA with a big grin on my face – not only was I back in school, but I had a fellowship that basically paid me to go to school! I had never considered myself particularly good at math, but I actually enjoyed my statistics class and was good at using the computer software that my professor preferred. I performed well in the class and my professor asked me to be an RA for him. That experience really helped to socialize me into the world of academia. I learned a great deal about academic research, the process of getting a book published, and perhaps more importantly, some of the “unwritten rules” that those who come from academic backgrounds take for granted.

For example, I had to learn how to choose advisers based not only on their interest in my research, but also based on whether or not they were talking to each other. Without a faculty member willing to provide that information, working with a dissertation committee could have been difficult.

Mentoring was also important when it came time to choose a dissertation topic. My dissertation adviser convinced me to drop my initial topic on immigration policy, and change to a study of voting behavior and the radical right. Although it wasn’t my first choice, the topic ended up being very interesting and important, and the dissertation was relatively easy to turn into a book. I have also been able to return to the immigration policy topic, as a more mature scholar with a better sense of how to approach the issue.

When I became an assistant professor, mentoring became even more important. As a grad student, I didn’t think much about the process of getting tenure, except for watching some of my professors sweat through close decisions. I needed help from mentors both in and outside of my university to help me understand when and where I needed to publish, to get access to top-notch university presses, and to make a case for me when I went up for tenure.

Mentoring is not a one-way street. It is important to get out and meet people at conferences and meetings who may be helpful contacts in the future. Even as a graduate student, I had developed a network of scholars who I admired and who were doing similar research. This has stood me in good stead over the years, helping me to be invited to write chapters in edited volumes, attend conferences, or even to get funding for projects. Networking has most importantly played a role in getting a new job when my husband lost his (non-academic) job and we both had to go on the job market. As in many other fields, it’s often who you know that matters as much as your qualifications for the job.

Over time, I have learned that mentors can be an important source of advice and support. However, I also learned that you can’t always expect mentoring to be a positive experience. I have had to learn the difference between people who had my best interests in mind, and those who had their own personal agendas. Although I generally respond well to mentoring, I also have a tendency to take it as a challenge when someone tells me I can’t do something, which is also a good form of motivation. It is important, when accepting advice, that you carefully weigh the pros and cons, and make sure that the decision you make is yours in the end. I’ve made plenty of mistakes along the way, but I have always appreciated the people who made time to help me navigate the often choppy seas of an academic career. I consider it my duty and privilege to repay them by using their example to develop my own skills as a mentor.

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  • 100 % Agree with Importance of Mentoring
  • Posted by Dr. Neida Hernandez-Santamaria , Proyecto Pa'Lante at Northeastern Illinois University on October 2, 2009 at 11:15am EDT
  • Terri Given wrote, "As a first-generation college student, traveling through the world of academia was often a series of blind turns." The impact of being a first generation college student is something that has long lasting effects. I too was a first generation college student. Although I have been able to navigate through higher education and earn my Educational Doctorate in Adult Education just this past June, as I enter this new phase of my career life that sense of the blind turns is creeping right back into my life. The good news is that because I too have benefited from having mentors-I knew that I had to seek out help. This help has come in the form of a couple of new mentors who in their lives are in a place I hope to also reach one day. They have generously and actively offered to listen to me, talk with me, and serve as role models for me. My mentors once again, are older; more experienced and have commitments to showing others the way...no matter what.

    Thanks to my mentors, Flora Llacuna, Dra. Pedroso, Dr. Betances and Dr. Rosita Lopez and others to come, I continue to succeed!

    Neida Hernandez-Santamaria, Ed.D.

  • Mentoring and Women
  • Posted by Keith Forrest , Assistant Professor of Communication at Atlantic Cape Community College on October 2, 2009 at 3:15pm EDT
  • We all need the help of others to succeed. One of the most important roles of any teacher is to serve as a role model for students. But I think that given the still dominant role of patriarchy in society this is sometimes even more important for women. I am currently examining political women to determine whether they had mentors and who those mentors were. This collection of 31 women executive office holders had twice as many male mentors as women mentors. I would certainly be interested to know whether Professor Given's mentors were men, women, or both.

  • I did it alone
  • Posted by Soo on October 3, 2009 at 5:00pm EDT
  • I never had a mentor. Earlier in my life I never even knew such a person/option existed. I did college, 2 grad degrees all by myself (financially and otherwise)-no real guidance from anyone. I'm sure I would have benefited if someone looked out for me, but it's not impossible to do on your own.

    All I hear from people nowadays is "I need a mentor," which often means "I need someone to do it for me." This often comes up when someone needs to do something they haven't done before- "I need a mentor." While guidance is fine, sometimes one needs to tough things out on one's own.

  • Posted by poor, wayfaring stranger on October 4, 2009 at 4:45am EDT
  • Strange thing, the mentoring business. I'm sure it can be warm & fuzzy in its way, but not always. It also breeds animosity and ill will between mentees and their unfortunate peers who seek it, but just don't strike the gods as being worthy to take under wing. I've also seen instances where the older and wiser resent the independence of younger professors who don't want or need their guidance.

  • Mentoring happens naturally as well as intentionally
  • Posted by menubia on October 8, 2009 at 1:00pm EDT
  • The mentoring process in education is something that is a natural extension of the human tendency for relational experiences. It works best, of course, when the mentoring relationship occurs naturally through consistent interactions. It has inconsistent success when it is a structured program where individuals are paired up by a third party. For those of you who think you never had a mentor, you probably did have someone watching out for you (i.e. an administrative assistant who made sure a form was signed at the 11th hour; a financial aid counselor initiated a reassessment of your package when s/he heard that your life situation has changed). Because learning happens both inside and outside the classroom, it should be expected that mentoring also occurs between administrators and students.

    One thing that Ms. Givens alludes to is that mentors do not rescue mentees from the experiences of their life. They only provide suggestions (a road map or outline), but do not step in and do things for them. That would go against the point of the mentoring relationship. This applies for any group of individuals entering higher education for the first time (women, minorities, individuals with disabilities, etc.) In education, more than any other profession, mentoring is also an extension of the teaching/learning process. In order to do it right, there has to be commitment to, and faith in, the process.

    And to answer Soo, we do nothing alone in this world. To think that individual accomplishments happen, especially in education, is to have a false sense of self-importance...or are you fishing for pity? You had help...believe me, no one gets through higher education - especially two graduate degrees - without it. And you are a better person for it.

  • Blind date
  • Posted by Art on October 8, 2009 at 2:00pm EDT
  • Huge, astronomical sums of money are spent on mentoring at several levels, yet there's relatively little quantitative and reliable information about what it is and how or if it works. There's plenty of anecdotal and qualitative evidence that it works but we need more research. Clearly, there is a continuum of mentoring situations, ranging from the very informal ones to those where mentors and their proteges are assigned to one another. There are even "mentoring" or coaching situations where talented youngsters seek out master teachers and are quite willing to pay for the mentoring, as in the case of famous tennis or gymnastics coaches. Graduate students "pay" to work in the labs of famous researchers and Nobel prize winners. All of these things are forms of mentoring.

    There's published evidence that many successful leaders have had a series of important mentors throughout their lives. There's also interesting data about resiliency in children and the importance of adult mentors, particularly if there's a dysfunctional family situation (e.g., significant and caring adults like grandparents, coaches, or teachers). These resilient kids have certain important characteristics, however, such as optimism, intelligence, a "sparkly" personality.

    In most instances, the mentoring relationship has to work for both parties. In a sense, mentoring is like a blind date, it has to work for both people.The mentor has to bring something to the relationship of value to the mentee, and the mentee has to be, in a word, mentorable. People who have worked as coaches for little league will be familiar with the term "coachable." Some kids are easy to coach; they listen, they smile, they have some talent. Some young people, alas, are not easy to mentor. They are like little porcupines and they will stick you when you reach for them. It is a hot and important area of research, but we need to know more in a rigorous and verifiable way.

  • Myths about Mentoring
  • Posted by Rey Carr , CEO at Peer Resources on October 10, 2009 at 7:00am EDT
  • Art makes some points none of which have a basis in fact. Astronomical sums spent on mentoring is almost ridiculous in that mentoring is typically a voluntary, informal activity that usually costs nothing. Even in formal corporate mentoring programs the costs are minimal. I'm not sure what programs he might be referring to.

    Then in his first paragraph he minimizes the research associated with mentoring, yet in his next two paragraphs he contradicts what he said about the research in paragraph one. The fact of the matter is that there is significant peer-reviewed research available about mentoring in addition to the "anecdotal" evidence to which he alludes.

    Another myth about mentoring has to do with the lack of understanding about Soo's comment. There are many cultures where "help" from another person means failure or lack of competence. It's not unusual to find that people from these cultures do not acknowledge or recognize a mentoring relationship and are actually puzzled by it when encountering the Western view of mentoring.