"Mothering at Mid-Career" by Libby Gruner

Libby Gruner is an English professor at mid-career who started her family in graduate school. She lives in Richmond with her husband and two children, one of whom should be heading off to college in the fall.


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  • Mothering at Mid-Career: Gender balance, again—this time in books
  • By Libby Gruner November 16, 2009 10:21 pm
  • A couple of posts in the last week about gender balance have caught my eye. Both came from Susan O'Doherty, whose Career Coach pieces have spurred all kinds of interesting comments on the blog as well as new ideas for me. First was her brief piece calling our attention to Scott Jaschik's longer piece on a possible challenge to Title IX arising out of a perceived problem with gender imbalance in ...
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  • Mothering at Mid-Career: November
  • By Libby Gruner November 9, 2009 9:39 pm
  • How did it get to be November already? It was 70F here today, so it doesn't really feel like November, but my calendar's pretty clear that not only is it November, it has been for over a week now. Which means, of course, that Thanksgiving is almost here, and the end of the semester is close on its heels.Of course if it's November it's also crunch time for job applicants and search committees. I'm ...
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  • Mothering at Mid-Career: Remembering a Master Teacher
  • By Libby Gruner November 2, 2009 8:14 pm
  • I learned a few days ago that one of my high school teachers, Otis Benson Davis, died last week. O.B., as we all called him (only behind his back - -to his face he was, of course, Mr. Davis), graduated from Kent School in 1942 and returned to teach there full time in 1949. He retired from active teaching only a few years ago, in 2006. I graduated from Kent 36 years after O.B. did. He was my AP ...
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  • Mothering at Mid-Career: Bullet Points on women in the news
  • By Libby Gruner October 26, 2009 10:21 pm
  • --Joann Lipman notes in the New York Times that women's advances in the work force seem to have stalled since 9/11/2001, despite the fact that women make up half the work force, and "mothers are the major breadwinners in 40 percent of families." As one of those major breadwinners, I could wish that Lipman had followed through on her analysis of the reasons for women's lack of progress in the work ...
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  • Mothering at Mid-Career: Parents' Weekend from the other side
  • By Libby Gruner October 20, 2009 9:43 am
  • When we dropped Mariah off at college this fall we didn't really think we'd see her before Thanksgiving. The drive, for one thing, is punishing: 550 miles, most of it on I-95, and however much googlemaps says you can make it in 8.5 hours, we've never done it in less than ten. Ten and a half, really. My schedule's unusually busy this semester and a weekend away seemed an impossiblity. And, with ...
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  • Mothering at Mid-Career: My take on "Opting Out"
  • By Libby Gruner October 12, 2009 9:18 pm
  • Dana Campbell came at the new census data on "opting out" last week from a rather different perspective than mine: the perspective of the opter-out, if you will, rather than the opter-in. And I agree with my fellow Mama, PhD that we need more subtle distinctions and more, not less, discussion of the work-family issues that make career "choice" increasingly a chimera. But I do also, generally, ...
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  • On children's literature and academic administration
  • By Libby Gruner October 5, 2009 9:37 pm
  • I've been going to a lot more meetings this year than I've done in years past — it's a mark of my current position chairing our new First Year Seminar program. There are, it seems, endless meetings on the way to establishing a new academic program: I go from committee meeting to faculty meeting to student interview and back again, usually carrying not only the materials I need to consult in the ...
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  • Mothering at Mid-Career: Where I work
  • By Libby Gruner September 28, 2009 10:48 pm
  • Once a week or so I leave my house in the morning at the usual time, bag packed, computer stowed—but instead of heading straight to my office I go elsewhere. Specifically, I head to a very public, chain bookstore café — one with free wifi — where I order a cup of coffee, plug in my laptop, and work for a few hours before heading in to my office. The place is hardly welcoming. It’s the ...
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  • Mothering at Mid-Career: Communication
  • By Libby Gruner September 14, 2009 10:06 pm
  • Updates from my daughter, now in her second week of college, come in the form of facebook status updates and text messages. We’ve talked a couple of times as well, but we’re certainly not having the daily phone conversations that some of my friends and colleagues have reported as the norm between college kids and their parents. This doesn’t really surprise me: we’re text people, in our ...
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  • Mothering at Mid-Career: Labor Day
  • By Libby Gruner September 7, 2009 7:27 pm
  • Many years ago, my husband and I planned our wedding for Labor Day weekend. Almost everyone we knew was a teacher, and school always started after Labor Day, so it seemed a convenient time as well as a date we’d have no trouble remembering.And then we moved, and I began teaching in a college with an academic year that runs from late August to early May, rather than September to June, as I’d ...
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