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  • Mothering at Mid-Career

    By Libby Gruner August 10, 2009 10:08 pm

    My piece last week struck a nerve, it seems, among some childless academics and with at least one person who didn’t comment as a teacher, but as someone working a more nine to five position. The big divide, as this commenter noted, is not really between the parents and those without children, but between folks with flexible work schedules and those without. Susan O’Doherty’s post today brings up the same issue: what of the administrative assistant whose maternity leave is too brief, whose work hours can’t adjust for her to take care of a sick child?

    I’ve been thinking about these issues for a while, in part because at my home institution our office of Common Ground -- the university’s diversity initiative -- has made a point of helping me think about them. The staff/faculty divide is large, but in some ways we have seen it narrow in recent years, as (for example) our parental leave policies are brought in line with each other, opportunities for flex-time for staff increase, and (small but significant) we remove the identifying “F” or “S” from our parking stickers. (Since no parking lots are reserved for only faculty or only staff, the distinction was meaningless.)

    In my summer program, most of the academic staff are also students. They are in our classes and on our excursions, and they are often doing two jobs at once — trying to learn from the excursion even as they manage the distribution of entry tickets, for example. They have both fixed and flexible hours, like many administrative staff people, and I’ve marveled at their ability to juggle their workloads — the skill will serve them well when they leave the academy and move on. Their jobs, in turn, like mine, are made easier by the college scouts — the workers who serve our food and clean our rooms. These young men and women may also be students, but they wear uniforms to work and their time is strictly regulated. I wonder what policies govern their work hours. And I am reminded of Dorothy Sayers’ novel Gaudy Night, in which an Oxford college is terrorized by anonymous letters and then by increasingly dangerous and violent attacks.

    As it happens, (spoiler alert!) a scout named Annie turns out to be the criminal, motivated by anger at her scholarly husband’s perceived mistreatment by the college, and particularly by the academic women who rely on her services yet don’t even know her name. Sayers lumps the woman’s perhaps legitimate class anger in with her misplaced loyalty to her husband, making for somewhat uncomfortable reading these days. Now, when I think of the novel, I remember that our privilege often rests on others’ far less pleasant working conditions, and I thank the scout who serves me lunch and hope that a contemporary Annie would not find herself quite so oppressed.

    I know we have a ways to go. Staff and faculty jobs are different and the demands on our time vary widely. But the more we think about our common ground — the ways in which our work complements each other, the significant contributions we both make — he more we can work on sensible policies that benefit us all.

Comments on Mothering at Mid-Career

  • a little perspective
  • Posted by random thoughts on August 11, 2009 at 9:00am EDT
  • I sympathize with the concerns expressed in this series of posts and I think that, when possible, it is good for organizations as well as workers when we can accommodate responsibilities to support family concerns. I have found the posts here on this topic to be thoughtful and helpful (though not, perhaps, all of the comments). I write having had the benefit of a flexible work schedule at some points in my life (although much of that time working 60+ hours per week). (Full disclosure: I am male.)

    With that said, I find some of what I sometimes read (elsewhere) about this topic unsettling. Most people in this society have to be in their workplaces from 9:00-5:00 (or whatever) and either make other arrangements for family responsibilities or take unpaid time off. Some with children work two (or more) jobs for very little money. From that perspective, faculty seeking more accommodations in their already quite flexible schedule come across as spoiled whiners. And that's not the sort of pr that higher education needs right now.

  • Bravo!
  • Posted by long time administrator on August 11, 2009 at 10:15am EDT
  • This is definitely a subject that we need to address, on both sides. As a long time administrator I have noticed that often the un-healthy (resentful?) aspects of the division between faculty and staff stem from each side not understanding the constraints of the other. For example faculty not understanding why a staff person might not want to check email throughout the weekend and evenings when they are obligated to be at a desk for a very fulling week. Often putting in more hours than their work week requires. While administrators see faculty spending a couple of hours at the gym every day during the weekday not realizing that they are putting in those hours teaching in the evenings or on the weekends. A little understanding can go a long way.

  • Supporting Others
  • Posted by Todd Petersen , Associate Professor of English at Southern Utah University on August 11, 2009 at 12:15pm EDT
  • I use the flexibility of my schedule as a university professor to support the more fixed schedule of my wife as she develops her successful career as an elementary art teacher, a cause the both of us support politically and philosophically.

    Because of my training in feminism and gender criticism, I see this as an important political statement that moves the theoretical into the practical. I feel it's a moral obligation to live my politics, which in this case means being more of an at home caregiver and support for my children.

    I know that this period is only for a season, and what I do for my institution for supporting my need for flexibility is to give them my loyalty. When that season has passed, I will move into another phase, where I will be able to help the next folks along.

    What saddens me about this issue is that the idea of supporting each other in the quest for a next generation seems to be lost. As educators we seem to agree that we need to educate people, and this is a high and noble purpose. Those college kids of the future need reasonable, attentive parents now in order to be the students we hope for in ten to fifteen years.

    My sister used to take the position that people with children shouldn't get any accommodations that aren't extended to everyone. She also felt that the personal emergencies involving a child were no different than ones involving any other aspect of an individual's life.

    Now that she is a young mother, she is changing that perspective. Ditto a colleague of mine, who took in the child of a sibling who was no longer fit to care for the boy.

    It does take a village to raise a child, as much as it pains me to bring up that bromide at this point.

  • Terrific post
  • Posted by Susan O'Doherty on August 12, 2009 at 7:15am EDT
  • Libby, this post and your previous one, along with the comments, are a great illustration of what the WSJ article didn't get--that by sharing diverse experiences we can all deepen our understanding of others' situations.