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  • Mothering at Mid-Career: What Keeps You Organized?

    By Libby Gruner June 22, 2009 9:28 pm

    We leave for a six-week stay in England next Monday. In between now and then I have to finish my annual review, write a book review, hold a workshop on a novel for YA librarians, convene a committee meeting, and pack. I think I have a couple of personal appointments in there as well — haircut? Dermatologist? I trust to my google calendar to pop up a reminder in enough time for me to get where I need to be. Then there’s the figuring out our travel part, and the planning my summer course part. I’m shelving those for the moment while I work on the more pressing matters.

    Whoever said academics got summers off was, apparently, living in a fantasy world. Unfortunately, whoever invented the stereotype of the absent-minded professor may not have been quite so wide of the mark. I’ve not missed an appointment yet, but I did forget to bring the right materials to a committee meeting (in my defense, my son had just been diagnosed with Lyme disease — he’s fine now, but for a few days I was a little scattered). And an e-mail today reminding me of the meeting with the young adult librarians had my heart racing for a minute until I realized that, no, I hadn’t missed it. Yet.

    My mention of google calendar, above, is not totally gratuitous, though it’s not an advertisement, either. I’m still searching for the Holy Grail of organizing, the one tool — or two or three, if that’s what it takes—that will keep me on task, prepared for the next, and never overbooked. At the moment I juggle four calendars. We keep a big desk blotter sized calendar on a bulletin board near the kitchen for family events. That works pretty well — we remember to note when guitar and tae kwon do lessons are, as well as the odd hair appointment or doctor visit. If it’s a family responsibility, it’s usually there.

    But then there are my personal calendars — and yes, that is a plural. I keep the main one on google calendar. It’s web-based and flexible, but I haven’t yet figured out how to link an e-mail message to a task or an appointment the way I used to with MS-Entourage—so I still maintain that one for recurring events or to remind me of tasks that may have e-mail notifications as well (e-bills, for example).

    I also carry a small appointment book in my purse. Mostly, however, I use it to take note of book titles I want to look up, or funny road signs, that sort of thing. I’m not disciplined enough about copying the electronic calendar reminders into it to trust it as a record, though I do—usually—manage to copy dates out of it into the electronic one(s) when necessary.

    I recently learned that I could sync my iPod with the calendar program that lives on my MacBook — and that the Mac program could sync with google calendar. So there’s a possibility, too — though, again, it requires a certain discipline in terms of actually synching up the calendars to get everything copied over when necessary. It’s no problem when my schedule doesn’t change much, but at this time of year, when I don’t have a regular schedule but I still have lots to do, it’s a little less efficient.

    Folks who’ve seen my office know that organization is not my strong suit. I do meet my deadlines, and I usually manage to keep things running when I need to. But if anyone out there has tips for me, I’m open to them — if I can manage to find them again when I need them! (By the way, I’ll be off next week while we travel to the UK; I hope to be back the following week, though, and maybe I’ll have a report on my reformed organizational strategies. Hope springs eternal!)

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Comments on Mothering at Mid-Career: What Keeps You Organized?

  • ordinary calendar still works for me
  • Posted by terri on June 23, 2009 at 10:15am EDT
  • I still find that a regular 12+ month, paper calendar that flips to display each month works best for me. I write in the daily boxes, circle the important holidays, write birthdays/anniversaries in red (with the age/# years!), put stars next to vital appointments, and use white-out when necessary. If the box is too full, the day is probably busy enough, anyway!

    I find that some information, such as things that need to be done 'this month,' need to go in the extra boxes. Important dates for the future can be written on the back and then transfered when the next year calendars come out.

    The upside is that when family members ask scheduling questions I can say, "I don't know; it's on the calendar." Families get used to this. They learn to consult the calendar and to write their own important information in the blocks. Old calendars can fit in files and work well as records.

    The down side is that I have to remember to carry the calendar with me and rehang it (or at least lay it in the same place every day) when I get home. I have also written appointments on the wrong days more than once.

    I love the absent minded professor comparison.

  • paper too
  • Posted by Hoosier Prof on June 23, 2009 at 10:45am EDT
  • I am also a fan of the old-fashioned paper planner - although they've gotten ridiculously expensive at Staples. I get a few sneering remarks from my colleagues about my lack of an electronic gadget (what? No Blackberry?!) but I can coyly remind them that I've got that much more dough stashed in my 401K. I keep it open on my desk so that my secretary can access it in my absence, and I rarely miss an appointment if I remembered to write it down. To be frank, it's not software but our mental focus that keeps us on top of our appointments. Parenthood seriously messes with that mental focus. I doubt that another Google app is going to save you.

  • Multiple google calendars
  • Posted by Teresa , Participant Services Coordinator at University of Iowa on June 23, 2009 at 1:00pm EDT
  • I love the flexibility of technologically-based time management systems. I was a believer in Outlook until the syncing issues arised. My answer too is Google. I have my personal calendar there and a family calendar, shared with my daughter in an out-of-state university, my son & daughter-in-law in Alaska, and my two teenaged sons. Anyone can add to the calendar and we all stay updated. Until I find something better, I will stick with this!

  • Google/Outlook calendar, plus OmniFocus
  • Posted by Starr , Librarian for Digital Collections at University of North Texas on June 23, 2009 at 6:00pm EDT
  • I use a combination of my calendar and task management software.

    I access my calendar primarily by using my iPhone (which at just $100 wasn't any more than I would have paid for any other cell phone on my ATT plan--I may have the oldest generation model, but it works superbly). The iPhone conveniently syncs my Google calendar and my Outlook calendar, so I have personal and work reminders pop up from the same place.

    I also purchased the OmniFocus software for my iPhone for $20. This is one of only two apps that I purchased for my phone--the rest of my 50-something apps were free!--but it was more than worth it. This task-management software uses the organizational principles from the popular book "Getting Things Done," but you don't have to read the book to get the grasp of the software. You break each project (say, writing an article) into discrete tasks (for instance, research topic, read literature, write lit review, email publisher, etc.). You can assign tasks to projects and to contexts (where you will perform them). This makes it easy to say "what can I do at home?" and find a task to complete in a few minutes.

    I got my iPhone at the beginning of this semester, when I juggled a fulltime job, fulltime semester as a PhD student, several conferences, and moving into a new home. Suffice to say that the combination of calendar and task management app kept me sane and on time!!

  • Posted by dr on July 1, 2009 at 12:15am EDT
  • I use iCal (Apple's Calendar app.). You can use MobileMe to have it sync all your calendars automatically: so whether I'm on the home computer, the office computer, or my iPod, I'm looking at the same information. I didn't know that you could sync iCal with google, though, that's quite useful . . .

  • Coordinating Gmai and Tasks
  • Posted by eiffel on July 4, 2009 at 6:45pm EDT
  • FOUND ON ONE OF GOOGLE'S BLOGS....

    A wonderful feature of the application is the ability to quickly and easily create a task from an email in just a few clicks using keyboard shortcuts. I tend to keep my email inbox stocked up with items that need my attention, so this new Task feature enables me to confidently add them to my “to do” list and then move them out of the inbox and into files without fearing that I will forget to complete the necessary action item if it’s not sitting in my inbox.

    If you are already using Gmail, you will need to go to the “Settings”, click on the “Labs” tab, find “Tasks”, select “enable” and then scroll to the bottom of the page and save your changes. Once you’ve done this, you can add a task either by keyboard shortcut or by selecting “Add to Tasks” from the “More Actions” menu directly above the email you are reading."

     

    Also see Slate.com this week for their ratings of best To Do lists online (the "winner" seems to also be Google Tasks, which received a perfect score. Giving it a shot this weekend.)

  • Calendars...one and only one!
  • Posted by Cindy on July 9, 2009 at 10:00pm EDT
  • Ph.D. Mama...

    Thanks for your great posts - I just stumbled upon your blog recently and love it! I'm a "Ph.D. to be" Mama myself. :-)

    Just had to contribute to the calendar conversation. Keeping multiple calendars is seriously the death of anyone who is time management strapped. No matter what approach you end up with, you need to find a way to just use one calendar. Maybe it's an electronic one that gets printed out and posted?

    You're only one person with only 24 hours in a day and keeping multiple calendars only makes the difficult task of balancing it all even harder!