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October 29, 2009

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Confronted with charges that he had romantic involvements with graduate students or sent them explicit text messages while they were enrolled in his classes, a University of Florida department head has resigned, university officials confirmed.

Michael T. Garrett, a tenured professor of counselor education, resigned this month amid an internal investigation of the charges, according to Janine Sikes, a university spokeswoman.

“We regret the personal distress that has come from this situation, and as soon as the university learned of allegations of misconduct Michael Garrett was placed on administrative leave and an internal investigation was begun,” she says. “We took immediate action.”

The investigation, however, was never concluded. Garrett resigned October 2, effectively ending the inquiry, Sikes said. Absent the conclusion of the investigation, the university has made no determination of whether the allegations made against Garrett were founded or violated university policies, she said. That said, “In cases where there are serious allegations and the person resigns before the completion of an investigation, we generally would not rehire him or her,” Sikes says.

Garrett did not respond to multiple cell phone calls and e-mail inquiries from Inside Higher Ed Tuesday and Wednesday.

The university’s inquiry into Garrett began after two students who said they had been involved with him reported their concerns, according to students familiar with the case. The nature of the investigation into Garrett was not widely known until Monday, when the College of Education held a meeting attended by about 80 people to discuss Garrett’s resignation. University officials told the group he had been investigated for sexual harassment, but no further details were imparted, according to several people who attended the meeting. After college officials made brief comments, the statements of two students were read to the group.

“I have sadly come to learn in the past couple of months that there are several other students who simultaneously shared that false hope and trust in Michael, believing as I did that they were involved in an exclusive, intimate, committed relationship,” one statement read. “Those students, consequently, are also experiencing intense pain right now.”

Garrett was director of the School of Human Development and Organizational Studies in the College of Education, and he has taught a number of courses in the college since his appointment in 2006. According to two of his former female students, Garrett gained their trust through his position of authority, sent them a series of increasingly personal e-mails and text messages -- some of them, to one student, explicit -- and ultimately had consensual sex with them.

In one case, a student says she had regular sex with Garrett while she was enrolled in his class. In another case, a student says she engaged in explicit texting with Garrett -- including mutually exchanged nude photographs -- over the course of several semesters when she was his student. The student said the relationship was consummated at Garrett’s home when she was not his student, but he still chaired the department in which she majored. A third student said she had intimate conversations with Garrett about her personal life, and -- while not enrolled in his class -- ultimately rebuffed a physical advance from him when she visited his house.

All three students spoke to Inside Higher Ed on condition of anonymity, citing the highly personal nature of the allegations. While the women said the relationships were consensual, they came to believe Garrett had manipulated them upon learning he had been involved with multiple students simultaneously.

The university's own policies indicate that even “consensual” relationships between students and professors can be problematic because of the clear power differential between the two parties.

“A conflict of interest is created when an individual evaluates, supervises, or has decision making power affecting a student with whom he or she has a romantic or sexual relationship,” Florida’s policy states. “Such relationships, even when consensual, may be exploitative.”

Garrett is 39, and all three of the students who spoke with Inside Higher Ed for this article are in their early to mid twenties. None of the students interviewed said they thought they received favoritism from Garrett, but all said they felt they were on shaky ethical ground -- and that he thought so, too.

“He said he would never do this with anyone else, that he would only risk his career for me and that he would never risk it for another student,” says one of Garrett’s former students, who says she had a sexual relationship with him while enrolled in his class. “He knew -- we both were aware -- of the ethics behind it. Based on love we would overlook that, and he made it very clear that it was only me and that it would never be anybody else.”

An Intimate Class

Garrett, whose résumé indicates he was licensed as a school counselor in North Carolina, has written numerous books and articles about spiritual healing and American Indian religious practices. He frequently includes a Cherokee middle name, Tlanusta, when publishing. In his courses, Garrett often expects students to share their own intimate personal histories with the class, and the three students interviewed for this article said they felt he used those experiences to establish trust and intimacy with him.

One of the students, named “Jane” for the purposes of this article, says her interactions with Garrett began in 2008 when she was taking a class called Developmental Counseling Over the Lifespan. Garrett started the class by asking students to write a paper about a “critical incident” that had changed their lives. Jane says she wrote about a difficult relationship, and she says Garrett used those details as an opening to talk to her about her personal life outside of class.

“His classes were intimate,” she said. “We exposed really personal stuff, and he would continue to talk to us about personal stuff. That’s what he initiated contact with.”

As a graduate student, Jane says, she asked all of her professors to recommend a book that had “changed their lives.” Most responded with books about counseling. Jane says Garrett, however, suggested the poetry of Pablo Neruda, the Chilean writer whose lyricism is often laced with erotic or sensual imagery.

As the relationship progressed, Jane says she was receiving as many as 100 text messages each day from Garrett. Over time the texts grew more explicit, but by Jane’s own admission Garrett was initially resistant when she pressed for a physical relationship. It wasn’t until after he was no longer teaching Jane, she says, that she had sex with him at his house.

Jane did not raise any objections about her relationship with Garrett until after she learned he was seeing another student, she says. But she says her objections were not garden variety jealousy. Instead, Jane began to view Garrett as a master manipulator, using his position of authority to enamor students with compliments about their “refreshing” intellect.

“If I had found out that day that the person who he was involved with was not a student, I would have felt completely differently,” she said.

'Gut Feeling' Relationship Was Wrong

Three of Garrett’s former students say the professor expressed a unique level of trust with them -- a sort of cosmic connection. In all three cases, the students say Garrett described himself as heartbroken over his ex-wife and thankful to find such trusted companions with whom he could commiserate about matters of life and love.

One student, named “Sally” in this story, says she first encountered Garrett outside of class at a department store, where the two wound up talking for almost two hours about Sally's relationships and other personal matters.

“At the end, I remember him saying ‘I hate to leave you.’ I didn’t know how to take that," Sally said.

Shortly after that meeting, Sally says Garrett gave her a coffee mug she’d admired while they were in the store. Before long, they were exchanging e-mails four or five times a day. Sally says her frequent conversations in Garrett's office were "never" about academics, and Garrett “was in so many ways encouraging me to break up with my boyfriend, because he saw I was unhappy."

While Sally says she knew the relationship was teetering on romance, it wasn't until the two agreed to meet at a state park at the end of the semester that she felt it would become physical. Sally says she got cold feet, however, and backed out.

Despite the close personal nature of their relationship, Sally said Garrett expressed no ethical issues about her enrolling in another class with him during a subsequent semester. She said she had told Garrett, however, that she did not want to have continued personal contact with him because she valued him as a professor and didn’t want anything to interfere with that relationship.

“He did for the most part leave me alone,” she said. “Now I know he was with other students [at the time].”

It wasn’t until after Sally’s final class with Garrett that she visited his home, where she says Garrett made his first overt physical advance.

“He said 'I’ve never felt so close to someone,' ” she said. “He said 'I’m not a sexual person, but I want to touch you.' ”

Sally says she declined his advance, and left despite his invitation to stay the night.

“I had a gut feeling that I shouldn’t be doing this, and I finally listened to it,” she says.

Complaint Filed with Association

Given his counseling background, Garrett would be bound by the ethical standards of the American Counseling Association as well as any of the University of Florida’s own policies. According to the American Counseling Association's ethics policies, “sexual or romantic interactions or relationships with current students are prohibited.”

Edil Torres Rivera, a professor of counselor education at Florida who co-wrote books with Garrett, says he had heard nothing of Garrett having relationships with students prior to his resignation. Had he been aware of any such relationships, Rivera says he would have been ethically bound to report it to both the ACA and the National Board for Certified Counselors.

“If somebody had some knowledge of that they have to report it,” he says. “They don’t have a choice.”

“It’s almost like having a relationship with a client,” he adds. “It’s very clear in the ACA code of ethics as well as the NBCC licensing board.”

Subsequent to the launch of the university’s investigation into Garrett, an ethics complaint was filed against Garrett with the ACA, according to documents obtained by Inside Higher Ed.

“As a counselor educator, Dr. Garrett exploited the trust implicit in the counselor educator-student/supervisee relationship in direct violation of ACA ethics,” the complaint says. “The young woman, on whose behalf I am entering this complaint, feels personally betrayed and humiliated in realizing that she became a victim of this superior whom she admired and trusted.”

While Garrett has resigned and an ethics complaint has been issued, students interviewed for this article say they are still concerned other future students might be manipulated by Garrett, just as they believe they were. In sharing their stories publicly, the students say they hope Garrett won't have the opportunity to interact with students again.

“I am completely angry,” Sally says. “I want to make sure he does not do it again. He has no remorse. He has not apologized to any of these girls. I take responsibility for what I did, but I also feel I was severely tricked and duped and victimized by him.”

For three women who enrolled in a graduate program seeking to learn how to help others, they say they leave University of Florida feeling fearful, manipulated and confused about how to square their passion for counseling with what they say occurred in the care of a counselor.

“I loved my program,” one student says. “And that has changed that for me.”

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Comments on In a Counselor's Care

  • Finally
  • Posted by Frank , Crumudgeon-in-training/Reality at Nowhere Podunk U on October 29, 2009 at 7:30am EDT
  • No claim of "academic freedom" in yet one more sad circumstance.

    Reality has intruded on Prof-Scam World. There is a God.

  • Posted by Kasey on October 29, 2009 at 9:00am EDT
  • Bravo for these girls to have the strength to tell thier stories. Thier valiancy in exposing this professor and preventing others from becoming victimized is commendable.

  • re: Finally
  • Posted by Julie Hofmann , Associate Professor, History at Shenandoah University on October 29, 2009 at 9:15am EDT
  • I am not sure I understand Frank's comment. How on earth would academic freedom relate to this case? and why would anyone put the words in scare quotes?

  • Sour grapes
  • Posted by Libertarian on October 29, 2009 at 9:45am EDT
  • In the eyes of the ladies, his offense was not the relationship but that it was not "committed" and "exclusive." Did they expect him to marry them? Yikes, sounds like 19th century dramolett stuff. Isn't college a place to experiment before all that commitment stuff? While the power relationship makes any discussion moot anyway, because such relationships should not happen, there are no "victims." If anything, these students were victimized by their Victorian phantasies.

  • Posted by Lizzie on October 29, 2009 at 10:15am EDT
  • These women were truly courageous in coming forward with their stories. There are many personal and professional, and emotional and practical, challenges to overcome in bringing sexual harassment cases to light. The willingness of these women to share their experiences will hopefully help other victims of sexual harassment feel less isolated in their circumstances and more confident in speaking up at their own institutions.

  • improper
  • Posted by Gary Davis , Principal at Board Solutions on October 29, 2009 at 10:15am EDT
  • I couldn't disagree more with Libertarian. The women are victims in that the professor took advantage of his power relationship with them. Professionals should protect their clients, not extract favors from them in return for their expertise. Although some scoundrel profs have used "academic freedom" as an excuse for their improper actions, academic freedom should never override the client's (or student's) rights. Those who argue the women are culpable because they are adults would never argue that a used car dealer has the right to cheat customers as long as they are over the age of 21. It's time for colleges to take action to prevent this kind of abuse.

  • Trivial but telling?
  • Posted by Kevin R. Guidry , PhD Student at Indiana University on October 29, 2009 at 11:15am EDT
  • It might be trivial and nit-picky but it bothers me a bit that both a commenter (Kasey) and one of the women involved in these incidents referred to these students as "girls" when the article clearly states that they are in their early-mid twenties. I always cringe a tiny bit when my colleagues refer to our adult students as "kids" or use similar language as it seems reflective of attitudes and expectations that minimize students' responsibility and independence. This is particularly problematic when I read stories like this where power was blatantly abused and people genuinely hurt yet we continue to trivialize the students involved with careless language.

    Don't misunderstand me; I don't lose sleep over careless language but I do wonder if it is indicative of larger patterns of thought and belief (and, in this instance, action).

  • Posted by bystander on October 29, 2009 at 11:30am EDT
  • He was not only their professor--he was their professor of counseling. That is worse than being a professor of--oh--engineering or biology, something objective like that. He was particularly skilled at building a relationship, whether real or fantasy. I don't care if the young women were over 21 and thus not jail bait.. Or over 31. Such simple birthday counting suggests Mr. Bernie Madoff's victims all should have known better, and some of them were probably over 51, and had doctorates, too. People are lied to; some people believe liars who are reallllly good at it. If the liars are in particular situations, such as being a teacher, their lies are more believable than if they are standing in a used car lot where one's guard is presumably up.

  • WTF?
  • Posted by Frank on October 29, 2009 at 12:30pm EDT
  • "How on earth would academic freedom relate to this case?"

    Anyone who needs to have explained the abuse of "academic freedom" for everything from parking ticket-avoidance to "secret child-porno investigations" needs to spend more time in the non-library world.

    Google "Stanley Fish." Should not be difficult.

  • Posted by dissapointed on October 29, 2009 at 12:30pm EDT
  • It is just a sad day when a prof of counseling (which indicates mastery of building emotionally intimate relationships), uses this mastery to fulfill personal needs at the profound expense of others. Additionally, the damage done to these women is not financial. It is damage that will affect their ability to have emotionally intimate relationships in the future. In many ways this is much more damaging that anything Bernie Madoff could ever contrive. Of course they are consenting, but not responsible for being victimized by someone with enough skill to swindle them into an emotionally destructive deal. In the world of everyday relationships this is bad news but not professionally unethical. In the world of counselor ed it is profoundly unethical and just wrong.

  • What Sexist Nonsense!
  • Posted by Sara on October 29, 2009 at 1:00pm EDT
  • If the portrayal of this professor's actions is accurate, then I have little respect for him. But these women are not victims in any sense, and are simply taking advantage of their superior power to victimize this professor. If a woman met this dog in a bar, and he lied to her, used her, and then dumped her, she would have to accept that she made a bad choice. But because this hound dog happens to work as a professor, the woman can obtain revenge by getting him fired. The professor may be a jerk, but he is the victim here -- not the women. There is no evidence that he has abused his power by engaging in a quid pro quo relationship. The evidence is that the women abused their power by alleging harassment in order to get even with a cheating boyfriend. IHE is being terribly sexist by not naming the women.

  • Correct definition
  • Posted by Bryan Funk on October 29, 2009 at 3:30pm EDT
  •  

    Dr. Garrett's behavior, if true, is inexcusable for any professor much less for one in the counseling profession. I take concern with the use of consensual to describe the relationships. Using consensual to state that both persons agreed to the relationship is inaccurate as that is more agreed. Mutual sexual contact involves four parts: both persons agree, are around the same age, have the same knowledge and power, and not force, trickery, bribery, other other similar means were used. Consensual adds that both persons are of legal age to consent to the act. If the allegations are true, then Dr. Garrett could not have consensual sex as he clearly had more power than his students or those enrolled in the program and he appears, from the stories above, that he used forms of trickery in his interactions. The professor and the counselor has the ethical responsibility to do no harm and to protect the integrity of the profession. This did not happen. Shame on Dr. Garrett. I do hope the women get the appropriate support and help.

     

  • Posted by Greg on October 29, 2009 at 3:30pm EDT
  • hooray for Sarah! She cut through the BS and saw the case for what it was. These women took advantage of a situation they have been through all their lives, or at least every weekend at the bar. They probably have some unflattering nicknames that all the guys in school and town know them by. I thought the article was a joke at first, but it is just about petty revenge. All I can say is to bad this teacher didn't stick it out and fight this sordid mess. what is the old saw about a "woman scorned...."

    Greg

  • Why capitalism works
  • Posted by Frank on October 29, 2009 at 3:30pm EDT
  • " .. Michael T. Garrett, a tenured professor of counselor education, resigned this month amid an internal investigation of the charges, according to Janine Sikes, a university spokeswoman."

    He got while the getting was good. Had he stayed, and been convicted, he would have lost his pension rights (see Nixon v. USA).

    As for "Sara" -- at any competent company, that kind of behavior is immediate grounds for firing. Heck, most co-workers don't want to date each other, given all the lawyers swimming about, fins and fangs shining in the sunlight.

    The system works, contrary to the Blag-o crowd.

  • Posted by Sam on October 29, 2009 at 3:30pm EDT
  • Are you crazy Sara??? I once taught at the college level and it was super clear (even way back then) that "playing the field" with your students was so unethical that it would get you fired. He didn't meet them in a bar, he met them in his classroom and used their assignments to come up with pick up lines. How sick is that? Maybe they are "getting even" or maybe not. One thing for certain is that these ladies coming forward helps protect the women at the next university he shows up at.

  • Posted by J Alfred on October 29, 2009 at 4:15pm EDT
  • I'm shocked, shocked that a professor was having a sexual relationship with a student!

    People, it's not the (consensual) sex that these women were victimized by, or even the power difference (please- you think young attractive women don't realize the power THEY have??)...

    It's the emotional manipulation that's the real crux of this, the real crime. An insecure professor used his skills and the props of coursework to emotionally manipulate these woman, to build trust and intimacy, to get into their hearts.

    The first statement says it well: "simultaneous...false hopes...intense pain"

  • Where's the power imbalance?
  • Posted by Sara on October 29, 2009 at 4:30pm EDT
  • I'm not defending the creep, and would bounce him from my department posthaste. But -- these women had the power to destroy his academic career if they didn't like him as a boyfriend. And they abused that power. To say that he abused his power over them, on the other hand, is getting it exactly backwards. He's an unprofessional creep, but there is no evidence that he engaged in harassment. His only crime is being a hound dog.

    PS: I'm astonished at the sexual puritanism in this thread, not to mention the anti-feminist and sexist notion that a grown woman needs institutional protection from non-harassing sexual advances.

  • Probably thought rules didn't apply to him
  • Posted by Carol , Public Health Professional at personal email on October 29, 2009 at 10:45pm EDT
  • I'll bet Michael Garrett is a narcissist. He knows better--probably was taught and did teach not to have a dual relationship with clients. This would include students, especially when they are paying tuition for his supposed erudite teaching.

    Garrett probably figures he is better than the average person, deserves this sort of special perk, and the rules don't apply to him, on top of manipulating them emotionally for his own benefit.

    It can be quite heady to feel very connected emotionally, especially after sharing so intimately. Garrett would know that. Instead of demonstrating how to avoid such conflict, he did the opposite of what a professional should have done. (All of) The students deserve a tuition refund.

    The students should report it. This guy needs a reality check. He probably won't listen to anyone but his colleagues or someone higher up than he.

  • Give me a break!
  • Posted by Rick , Dean at School of Real Life on October 29, 2009 at 11:00pm EDT
  • All this talk of victimization....please! All willing and knowledgeable parties here. Didn't one woman not have convince him to move their relationship forward. In the criminal law world that would be entrapment. I am so tired of these students being referred to as "innocent kids" or manipulated by someone in authority. They ALL said they received no favoritism. Get over it, they are all adults.

  • Posted by Amazed on October 29, 2009 at 11:00pm EDT
  • Sara, Sara, Sara, I am amazed at your lack of feminist perspective in this discussion. You assume the women were out for revenge because they were scorned--a sexist assumption if there ever was one! How sad that this is your view about this situation. I know some of the women involved and I know their intentions. Despite great pain of their own, and the risk it took to take action, their singular goal has been to stop Dr. Garrett from misusing his position of authority and his power to prey on future students--women or men. (Check your feminist fact book – stopping the misuse of power to exploit others is a basic tenet of feminist principles.)

    I am also aware that there are more women than the three who stepped forward that have been similarly taken advantage of by this professor. Another motivation for their courageous action. I have heard rumors of his involvement with students at other institutions. Does sex between professors and students happen? Yes. Should it? NO! Especially in the profession of counseling. Counseling students are asked to open up and become vulnerable as part of their self-reflective learning process so they can become compassionate and empathic professionals. These students trusted their professor and supervisor to respect this process instead of abusing it. Dr. Garrett is a predator and I hope he is put out of business.

  • Posted by Teresa on October 30, 2009 at 5:00am EDT
  • Bravo, Sara, for saying what so many others are thinking! Yes, this professor sounds like a creep and acted like a sleeze-bag person, but these were grown women who willingly agreed to have relationships with him knowing full-well that it was unethical and dangerous! (At least one of them admitted to having these reservations in the article!) It is decidedly ANTI-feminist to portray these women as helpless victims who had no control over the situation. Why is this AUTOMATICALLY considered to be a feminist issue anyways? I(f the students were Black, would that automatically make it a case of racism-- in which the White man abused his power over helpless minority victims?) Why aren't the women also accountable for their actions and decisions? True, this professor abused the professor-student relationship and took advantage of his ability to get close to his students, but he didn't coerce them, or bribe them, or force them into having relations. He should have known better. THEY should have also known better.These are adult women-- why aren't they also morally culpable? (If they aren't, then at what point do they become responsible for their actions?) And doesn't it bother anyone else that these students are receiving advanced degress in COUNSELING? I'm not saying that their careers should be ruined, but what does this story say about their ethics and decision-making abilities?

    It is a bad situation and a horrible jilted-lover story. But sexual harassment? I wouldn't say so based on the details described in the article...

  • Posted by Disgusted on October 30, 2009 at 5:00am EDT
  • I am learning to become a counselor and it is never okay to do what he did to these women. Are they of legal age, yes. But Dr. Garrett used his manipulative power for harm and not good. Some of you are quick to say its the women's fault or what not but thats just disgusting in and of itself. These women were brave and preventing someone else in the future for falling into his lies. These women are not the only victimes. The school, department, field of counseling, and other students are victims of this situation. Its a shame that this jerk needs to put a taint on all of the people are trying to better themselves and do something good in the world.

  • It's not always simple... look at the context
  • Posted by sad on October 30, 2009 at 5:15am EDT
  • I am very saddened by these events. While I am not a counselor, I have spent more than a decade in higher education as a student and instructor and, more importantly, I consider myself a friend of the UF counselor Ed program. I personally know Dr Garrett and if these allegations are true I am disappointed by his judgement.

    However, despite their veracity, I will continue to have deep respect for his work as a counselor educator. He was an excellent faculty member: a collaborative and efficient chairperson, a prolific researcher and expert on Native American culture, and a phenomenal teacher. I have seen the powerful effect he has had on multiple students, aiding in their transformation as clinicians.

    Is any personal intimate relationship between a student and instructor a good idea? No. Is there a continuum of wrongness? Yes. What I do not see in this article or discussion is an attempt at understanding his context or that of the students. Unfortunately, issues are not simply black and white. Here are some of my observations that hopefully make this situation more personal and more gray:

    -Dr Garrett was isolated; recently divorced and 500 miles away from his young son
    -He is bi-cultural and see the world through both western and native eyes. I can't say that I fully understand a Cherokee worldview
    -He is very intense and focused when talking with anyone 1-on-1, and he reflects interpersonal energy (what someone brings to the conversation)
    -Many female counselor ed students spoke of having crushes on him and some even wrote about their attraction in papers for classes
    -Further, I witnessed female counselor ed students swarming over him at social functions
    -The process of becoming a counselor is an intense emotional journey and exposes the deep emotional core of a student

    Am I saying that he is blameless or a victim? No. But, neither are the students. Matters of love are complex. People are human and make choices, some good and some bad.

    I've known faculty that married graduate students, others that allegedly used their power to coerce students/other faculty for sex and I've also had students flirt with me when I was their instructor. These issues exist in academia and anywhere that people interact.

    I hope that we all keep an open mind about Dr Garrett's situation and that we wish for him and the students involved to have fulfilling, productive lives.

    -sad

  • Pathetic
  • Posted by Wow on October 30, 2009 at 5:15am EDT
  • Sara and Greg,

    I think you are both a disgrace to higher education. As an academic advisor I might have a bias believing that students shouldn't be taken advantage of, but I find this disgusting. I can not believe that you would think this professor is the victim when he was the one abusing his power with MULTIPLE students. Do you think he stopped with 3? How many years do you think this has been going on? This was not some one night stand with a student.

    You obviously were not paying attention because he was not fired, he resigned. Now why do you think it is that he would choose to leave without explaining himself? You say there is no evidence there was harassment. I didn't realize you knew these students and what happened to them. You might want to read the article over again. He took the intimate conversations these students shared for their counseling classes and used them to make contact and gain their trust. This is absolutely manipulation and an abuse of power. These students did not meet him at a bar; they met him in the classroom. You should not compare the situations. He took advantage of his power. No question.

  • Code of Ethics
  • Posted by Future Doctor , Graduate Student at Nowheresville, USA on October 30, 2009 at 9:45am EDT
  • Although I am enjoying the conversation that has taken place over this topic, I think that the thing that you all are missing the most is the fact that the professor was bound by the ACA Code of Ethics which prohibits sexual/ inappropriate relationships with current students. It is not about whether he is a 'dog' or if the women should have known better or not, HE should have known better. He did not abide by the Code of Ethics and now he has to face the consequences. If he had been in another department that does not prohibit, but may simply frown upon, sexual relationships, then it would be different. However, him being a counselor educator and a professional, he has been taught and retaught that having these types of relationships with students goes against the Code of Ethics. If what the woman in the article has said is true (something about him and her being worried about the ethical consequences) then he knew from the beginning that HE was doing something wrong.

  • Another sad tale -- Prof. Scam
  • Posted by Frank on October 30, 2009 at 10:45am EDT
  • http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/10/29/AR2009102904474.html

    " .. In the book, Vilar writes about a "shameful" period in her life -- before she became a mother -- when she says she underwent 15 abortions in 15 years. What she now sees as her "nightmare" began with a teenage affair with a Syracuse University professor who was 34 years her senior .."

    My last comment: anyone faculty caught in these situations should be removed immediately from student contact, pending review for possible dismissal.

    Last observation: once removed from the classroom, notice how suddenly less appealing these lover-bozos are? That's because there was nothing really authentic there in the first place.

  • hugely disappointed but learning moment for other CE's
  • Posted by reb on October 30, 2009 at 2:00pm EDT
  • All I can say is that this is hugely disappointing. I can empathize with the personal struggles of those in power especially when they may come from disadvantaged or oppressive backgrounds, but it doesn't absolve them ONE BIT of their responsibility to those they agree to SERVE when they don the mantle of EDUCATOR. The counselor education profession is unique in that programs expect students to reveal personal information, especially feelings, and JUDGE them on their ability to do so in the process of becoming self-aware. To use such covert and overt expectations of students to manipulate them is a total ABUSE of power.

  • How about the obvious?
  • Posted by DFS on October 30, 2009 at 4:30pm EDT
  • A professor has too much power over students.

    Students may conspire against a professor in the vein of 'He said, She said.'

    Prohibit absolutely any nonprofessional relationship between them.

    This prohibition must be enforced by dismissal of all concerned -- both parties.

    The professor then knows the consequences, and so does the student.

  • Cut to the Chase
  • Posted by Bob Avakian on October 30, 2009 at 5:15pm EDT
  • I'm uncomfortable with all this talk of victims and consentual relationships.

    The simple truth is that he behaved unethically. Victims or victimless?
    Doesn't mmatter.

    "Book him, Danno"

  • Posted by S.B. on October 31, 2009 at 8:00am EDT
  • Being a "hound dog" may have been fine if he was preying on women outside of the university. But that behavior is not acceptable with students. I place trust in my professors not to take advantage of me, steal my work, or sabotage me professionally. He basically gave those students the message that love overrides ethics and that can be pretty convincing coming from a department chair and professor.

    It angers me that people are saying the students abused their "power" by reporting his actions. What's next, don't be a tattle tale if someone steals your work?

  • Posted by S.B. on October 31, 2009 at 8:00am EDT
  • I am frustrated by the unresolved state of this case. When a professor resigns, why should the investigation end? I have heard people point out that there have only been allegations, but no proof. If he is innocent, he is getting undue punishment, but if he is guilty then I think everyone should know that he is for a fact guilty. It really bothers me that someone who is guilty may get away with being thought of as possibly innocent or vice versa. Why should the accused have the choice to end an investigation that will bring the truth to light? I also wonder how the photographs and text messages did not provide conclusive evidence.

  • Problem with the PC crowd
  • Posted by Jay , Finance at University of Pennsylvania on October 31, 2009 at 3:15pm EDT
  • This is the problem with the PC crowd that dominates universities.

    You claim to be working for human happiness.

    Yet, you don't really recognize human nature for what it is. If you put young men and young women in the same space, the men are going to be attracted to the women. If they act on it, you hit them with a hammer. So essentially the requirement for them is to deny their nature.

    Deny their nature, a fine way to get to happiness.

    The solution really is to structure society so that people can be as close to what they are, while not hurting others.

    But to find such a structure is beyond your timid intelligences. So instead you will keep churning out PC BS about how people should be. Reality is however now what you believe it should be, it is what it is.

    Of course playing the PC game does have its rewards. Secure jobs, paid vacations (otherwise known as conferences) etc. etc.

  • Honestly?
  • Posted by Doctor of Thuganomics , Thuganomics at WWE University on October 31, 2009 at 5:15pm EDT
  • To the comment poster "sad," Are you seriously implying that, because he is part Cherokee and chooses to publish with a Cherokee middle name, that he is somehow to be excused for his actions? Please....multiculturalism is not an excuse for behaving without simple human decency and morality.