From Rachel Toor
Leaders tell me about experiences that are humiliating and painful and traumatic even to relate. Often, it’s about stuff that happened in their first presidency, when they weren’t able to discern what’s normal behavior and what is over the top. It’s easy for me to say, “It’s not you; it’s them.”
There have been times when, no kidding, I haven’t been able to sleep at night after some of the board nightmares I’ve heard. You’ve read bits and pieces of these horror stories over the years in The Sandbox.
When a president tells me they have a great board, I do a little happy dance. And, because I can’t help myself and see storm clouds everywhere, I always ask if the chair is still the same person who hired them. Joan Didion wrote, “Life changes in the instant.” But so can boards, if the new chair is a force of evil not someone a president can work with.
Though The Sandbox is a place only for presidents to write, I’ve long wanted to include the voice of a board member. I figured out who I could nag ask to share some thoughts; the nagging was graciously rewarded.