The Boy had another swim lesson last night, and it wasn't pretty. As miserable as he was, it all came rushing back to me. As a parent, it's painful to watch your kids struggle with the exact same things you did.I was never any kind of swimmer. I had the rotten luck to go to school districts that had pools, and where lots of kids had plenty of practice in water. That meant 13 years of mandatory swim units in gym class. It was horrible. I still remember some of them, and not happily.